There was a time when the art of flirting was of high value, experienced women taught unmarried girls the lessons of coquetry. For centuries young girls have been taught how to make alluring hints and give a light hope.
Nowadays everything has changed. The girls say directly what they want. They do not lower their modest glance, but they themselves make a date. Women manage their private life and career.
But men expect something else from us. They are not interested in emancipated independent ladies who have no charm or riddle. These women are available. Men do not need to win them in a struggle. Men are looking for modest and shy girls. They yearned for the gentle, timid glances. They make men's hearts freeze. However, modesty is not fashionable now. Maybe, there is a need to remember the art of flirting, the art of seduction. After all, everything new is well forgotten old. It means that this science has all the chances to succeed.
Consider a few basic rules for female flirting.
Gait
Almost all men create a first impression of a woman looking at her walk. Learn how to walk smoothly and feminine slightly shaking hips. And then the man, who follows you, will have a chance to talk to yo. He will make this decision because of your walk. In order to develop a smooth and graceful walk, there are a proven means: imagine that the man of your dreams is following you and is looking for a reason to talk to you. Believe it is an effective method!
Sight
Imagine you look up, stare at his eyes for a few seconds smiling only with your charming eyes, then smoothly look at his lips and neck, and then modestly lower your eyes. To get the desired result, you could repeat this manoeuvre in a few minutes. He should have time to gaze at your big and fluffy eyelashes, meet your languid look. Of course, he will make sure of your modesty.
Smile
Looking at the man you like, you have to smile as a sad or sullen expression will not help you get him. A smile may be different: from shy to frank. It depends on your thoughts and fantasies at the moment. You can smile at a man and imagine how you make love with him. Be sure your smile will reflect your thoughts and make your partner think about the same! There is only one condition: your smile should be real and sincere.
Listening skills
The art of communication is not the ability to talk much, but the ability to be an attentive listener, i.e. be able to listen and hear. If you begin to communicate with a man, start with topics interesting for him. You should not immediately tell him your whole life, or share your problems. Let him fantasize about you, be a mystery. Show interest to him, his business, family, his leisure. It will allow you to understand whether to continue communication in the future.
Touch
During communication, try to gently touch his arm or shoulder several times. Touching the right hand will be more effective. Then a man will begin to listen to you more carefully and will not be able to resist your charm. A woman, who straightens his tie or brushes away a speck of dust from his shoulder, is another captivating image for a man. But be natural! The classic method of successful flirting is a game with a strand of your hair. You can twist the strand on your finger, tuck the hair behind your ear, or just caress your hair with light movements. There are many ways, listen to your intuition. You will be pleasantly surprised when you see how a man's eyes light up and interest is reflected in them.
Gestures
If you are not familiar with gesture language, it is never too late to learn it. Consider the first simple gestures. When you are sitting in front of the object of flirting, with a smooth and graceful movement stretch your legs: demonstrate your immaculate knees, beautiful legs, elegant ankles and exquisite shoes. It will seem that you have long legs (even if it is not). You will look tasty and very seductive.
Pomade
Many men react sharply to bright red lipstick, perceiving it as a kind of sex appeal. But if this colour does not suit you - do not worry. Perhaps a shade of maroon or cherry will produce a stronger impression. It will emphasize the whiteness of your teeth (of course, if your teeth are flawless). The shine of light delicate shades will make the lips voluminous and slightly moist, therefore, alluring.
Mirror effect
According to psychologists, it is easy to please another person. It is enough to copy his facial expressions, gestures, voice and intonation. Of course, this does not mean that you need to imitate him like a monkey. Try to do it discreetly and naturally. An example is when your partner crosses hands, you can cross your fingers; when he leaned back in his chair, you can also relax and lean on. These actions will make a man feel that you understand him, that there is an imperceptible connection between you and him.
To sum it up, we live in an enlightened and technologically advanced world when there is equality, freedom, emancipation, etc. However, you should note that:
- Your behaviour should correspond to the behaviour of a well-educated young lady. When men give you a coat or open the door, take these gestures for granted, take the help of a man with a pleasant smile;
- If you laugh, do it openly, do not cover your mouth with your palm, but do not do it too loudly and vulgarly;
- Do not allow to be kissed on the first evening of acquaintance. A man can immediately lose all interest in you because you will be too easy to get.