Things I Wish I Knew Before I Ever Gave a Blow Job
A good blow job is one of the best gifs you can give your partner. But when it is properly done.
Some of the things you should now before start giving oral sex to your partner are:
Even it may be obvious for some, take precautions to avoid sexually transmitted diseases. Many people think that, as this a previous game, and it does not involve penetration in your lower areas, this practice is less risky when it comes to STD, but it isn't. No matter how passionate you feel, use a condom. Safety should be first.
Leaving aside what porn shows, the penis is sensitive! It is stuck to your partner. Start slowly and feel your partner's reactions, this will indicate if you can add pressure, go faster or slow down. I wish, I could tell you what is the best technique, but all guys like their blow job to be done in a different ways. Some enjoy the sucking, some others the linking, and some prefer you involve your hands and your mouth at the same time. You just have to know some basics, then talk about techniques and then discover your partner’s preferences.
In general, men like to observe, as they are visual remember allowing them to enjoy the show as this is very exciting for them. Remove your hair from the way between him and you pleasing him, is one of the best suggestions. Following with the basics, lubricate. when you keep moisture in the zone it will make him feel better and will help you perform your best tricks. Alternate techniques until you figure out what he likes the most, and use it as long as it work but try to discover some new ones, you don’t want to make this moment a routine. Learn to enjoy giving oral sex to your partner, when he knows you are enjoying this, it will make it pleasant for both.
Depending in the person’s mood or scent, the pelvic area may have certain “aroma”. If your partner is considered, and you both plan it as a special date he should clean himself as best as possible. But sometimes now matter how good the shower or his perfume is, some people have a particular scent on this area. You may like it or not and definitely depends on you whether to continue or not.
If you decide to continue to avoid ruining the moment, it is up to you, and if you don’t want to go on, it is also your choice, you have to be comfortable too. But if you decide to stop, you may find the way up and stimulate your partner using your hands or your thighs or your breasts placing his penis between and making some pressure on it. There are other ways to please him instead of giving him oral sex, if you don’t feel comfortable doing it that first time, make use of this additional options. For example, if you want to turn him on you can use the striptease option, and if you have already taken off your clothes and don’t want to go on with the fellatio you can show him how you please yourself, it is quite naughty and sexy.
In the moment you are giving oral sex to your partner, you have at first two options make it as a foreplay game, or do it to make him ejaculate. Usually men may have a couple of fantasies related to cum on your face, your breast or your mouth. Semen should not have a particular flavor, but some girls definitely dislike it. If it is the first time and (even you should be wearing protection) if you want to take your partner fluids, you have to experience and discover by yourself if you like him to cum on your mouth.
If it is your first time making a blow job you may ask your partner to guide you, but how can you do it without making evident you are not sure what to do, give him a little more control and place his hand on your head to make him lead the movements and speed. If you are not quite sure yet, keep in mind some of the things you have read before:
Be careful with his penis, unless he asks you the opposite. The penis gland and the testicles have a bunch of nerves endings as a consequence of it, what may be a slight caress for you, may be translated into extreme pain for him. Using temperature is good too, but always keep in mind every all extremes must be handled carefully. If you feel you don’t have enough knowledge to do it that first time, you may start like this and then follow the moment:
First garb your hair. As it is said above you don’t want your hair to interfere with the action.
Second, use your lips to kiss his chest and abdomen till you reach his pelvic area.
Third, you can go straight to the business or tease around in his thighs.
Fourth, using your tongue, lick from the testicles up to the penis head. Blow some air over the path you covered with your mouth.
Slowly take the penis into your mouth being careful to not hurt it with your teeth.
You should insert a part of it, and start moving up and down making pressure over the penis.
You can adjust the speed and the depth you allow the penis into your mouth.
In this process, you must control your breathing and again the depth because if you take the penis in to your throat you may feel suffocated or have difficulties to breath. All this will be learned with practice and being really aware of what you both like.
According to the movement you have chosen, you can include your hands to make a simultaneous progress and finally the moment will tell you if you continue the party with penetration or if you make him climax with your hands and mouth.
This time is for you and your partner, learn how to enjoy it. In case you have questions you may find additional information in previous articles and online. Be sure anything you can learn will always be a plus in the bedroom.