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Squirting 101

Squirting - the details who and what.

Squirting or female ejaculation is a physical reaction some women have when they climax. This involves the sudden secretion of an amount of liquid or “ejaculation” through the urethra which is the conduct through men and women urinate. There are very controversial theories about it and so far not any exact conclusion. But here you will find some of the aspects related to it that may help you get your own conclusion.

First most women can have an orgasm and do not squirt. Second it depends on several factors like how relaxed is the woman in the moment, how was the previous stimulation and how aware is she from this reaction to avoid stopping it.

Having this in mind, it is important to know that this “ejaculation” comes from the Skene's glands. These are glands located on the anterior wall of the vagina, around the lower end of the urethra. These glands are known to be women`s prostate and they excrete a white substance when a woman reaches climax.

But what is the confusion about it? It happens that, female ejaculation is sometimes confused with urine and in fact, even there have been studies about it there are mixed conclusions about this topic. Some say it is just the white liquid and some other say it is urine, and some people may say it is a mixture of both substances. When this substance was investigated it showed it contained a prostate antigen similar to the one is contained in men fluids.

Urine or not, many women do not feel comfortable with this experience, and this feeling may be so deep that stops them from enjoying orgasms and may even get to the point of looking for a surgery solution to avoid squirting during intercourse.

On the opposite site there are men and women curious about this part of the human sexuality and in order to do so they search for techniques and methods to successfully complete this task. So for those interested in living it there are some key recommendations:

  • Talk it to your partner. When you are both in bed communication is quite important, and as this may be a little different from common or previous experiences, talking about it may make things go easily.

  • Previous games. As squirting comes with climax, if there is good foreplay filled with the best stimulation there will be more possibilities to get a good female ejaculation.

  • Be relaxed and don’t stop yourself from squirting. Even the sensation is similar to the need of urinate, don’t contain it. Let yourself go with the pleasure.

Having this in mind there are some steps you can follow to reach a squirting climax.

  • First start with a massage. Being really relaxed is important to avoid the contraction of the muscles around the vagina. To get this done use some oil or water-soluble lubricant to massage the entire body. While you do so, surround the vulva but do not directly touch it. After that go to the inner thighs and massage them too, still without touching the vagina.

  • Go to de outer lips of the vagina and stimulate it with the thumbs, again without touching yet the vagina or the clitoris. This is done to stimulate the area, increase the sexual arousal, and the amount of blood directed to the zone.

  • Start stimulating the clitoris. As the goal is to reach climax and if this is done by the partner, you can start to stimulate the clitoris. Guide yourself for her body reactions, her moaning and heavy breathing may indicate she is getting to the peak point.

  • Start stimulating the G spot. The G spot is located inside the vagina from 5–8 cm (2–3 in) up the front (anterior) vaginal wall between the vaginal opening and the urethra. This point texture is similar to the texture inside of the mouth from the upper maxillary.

  • If done to the partner, keep a simultaneous stimulation to both the clitoris and the G spot. To this last one, it is useful to introduce two fingers inside the vagina. This two will be dedicated to stimulate G spot area making pressure and circles over it. The pressuring technique is one of the most applied in this case because it allows a good stimulation of the area. Remember to keep a constant movement in both the G spot and the clitoris as the excitement increases and the orgasm is closer the squirting will come naturally.

Please keep in mind this may not happened the first time and also avoid confusing yourself having as a reference adults movies. These may show, as they do in many cases, images quite far from reality. Remember you must feel free to live it. If you as a girl stop yourself from squirting, because you think it is urine and feel embarrassed about it is quite probably that you will never experience it.

As the partner, be patience and considered. If you both agree it, it’s great! If your girl doesn’t feel good about it try to talk it over, but if the answer is still no, don’t add more pressure to it, if she is stressed it is less likely squirting to happen. And last but not least, if you are form those girls who squirt easily when climax, don’t feel ashamed about it, enjoy the experience it is part of your sexuality and it shouldn’t bother you or your partner it is part of a sexual active life, so take it as it is and live your orgasms the best way possible.

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